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Speaking of my continual quest with going “back to basics”, I realise there’s this immediacy and “nowness” about pictures taken with the iPhone that can be quite nice. It takes me back to my really old posts in 2010 (Quan 88, Seven:am) where everything felt new and exciting. But it wasn’t long after that I decided I needed to start using my dSLR in order to be ‘good’ at blogging. In retrospect, that idea in itself is both true, and also false. Hence my going ‘back to basics’ now.
I have stopped bringing my big camera out to all my meals and have been balancing out my food blogging jaunts with just pure-enjoyment-with-friends jaunts. I’m liking it this way, although I still do squirm inside whenever I am somewhere really beautiful or am served exquisite looking (and tasting) food and realise I do not have the means at hand to capture what’s in front of me professionally. But life needs balance, and I am slowly learning to let go…
It has been a year since I’ve caught up with my friend Shing. But our catch-up dinner at Dinknesh Lucy in Footscray was just so pleasant that I wanted to share the experience at earliest convenience, even though all I caught of it were a couple of iPhone snaps. And screw all those fancy ‘top 10′ places that I have yet to speak about, they can wait. What I think made the entire meal so pleasurable was not just good and affordable food, but also the company I had, and the incredibly warm, maternal, and jovial lady who served us. I wish I caught her name… she helped us choose our dishes and she kept coming by to see how we were doing with our meal, and she just went about serving all of us customers with a big and beautiful smile. I could see that she loved what she was doing, giving comfort Ethiopian fare in this humble restaurant. It truly warmed my heart.
I think I enjoyed this meal with Shing because somehow, I opened up more quickly with her than I normally would with other people. I think it’s a quality about her that makes people do that when they’re with her. We first met in 1998, and I still remember during a Chemistry lab session, Shing handed me an orange Gerbera because I told her previously I’ve never been gifted a flower before. I also remember how she’d be comfortable with long 30-second silences over the phone while I’d be panicking, thinking “OMG why aren’t we talking???”
Fast forward 14 years and we’re now catching up as adults, in our 30′s, over dinner in an Ethiopian restaurant in Footscray. During some parts of this meal, I once again felt as if I was that shy, unsure and gawkish boy from 1998. In many ways, we have grown, matured, and have settled into our own skins. But in other ways, I also believe that the little child that’s inside each of us will never go away. And that’s a good thing. :)